During the initial phase of therapy, clients come to their appointment super focused on how their inner critic speaks to them with thoughts of "You're so stubborn", "You've too shy", "You're too critical", "You're so sensitive", generally fueling their feelings of anxiety, overwhelm or just plain … [Read more...]
The Jacaranda Tree
The street that I live on is connected to the main road that is beautifully lined with Jacaranda Trees. I take this road every day, but somehow, only today, noticed that all the Jacaranda trees were lit up with their vibrant purple flowers, their hint of sweetness waffling in the breezy air. The … [Read more...]
Purposeful Work
It is easy to lose our "why" behind the choices we make. When we can be mindful of our "why" we have the ability to understand why we do what we do, leading way to greater perspective. We can easily get lost in the circumstances and come up with a convenient story to tell ourselves about the … [Read more...]
The “I should’s” around the need to take massive action.
You may feel somewhat impatient with yourself today and may even be rushing into projects prematurely because you think you "should" be doing.........something. When one of my clients uses a "should" in their sentence it makes me stop and think about that great disease or (dis-ease) I and others … [Read more...]